"Daddy was an intensely private person. Very reserved. Shy almost" she says. I notice this in the drawn portrait, the same one chosen for the order of service. Buried in his newspaper, unengaged with the viewer, it manages to do something quite remarkable – present him to the public whilst preserving his privacy. She agrees: "We weren’t thinking in terms of essence, we didn’t use that word, but I think that essence is exactly what we were getting at when we chose that image."